Be Interesting (And Why It Matters In Chatting!)
Today, we're excited to showcase insights from one of our top chatters, sharing real talk about something that can make or break your success: being interesting.
First things first: what does it mean to be interesting?
It’s not about pretending to like what the fan likes just to "get along." That might seem like the safe move — agreeing with everything they say — but where’s the spark in that? Real conversations thrive on a little personality, a little spice, and sometimes even a little disagreement.
Let’s take a simple example: pizza.
Imagine a fan who says, “I love plain pepperoni.”
If you also love pepperoni, great! But if you actually prefer Hawaiian with pineapple? Say it.
Don’t just agree to be agreeable. Share your real opinion — and make it fun.
You might say, “I actually love Hawaiian because the sweet pineapple with the salty ham is just the perfect combo.”
The fan might be surprised. They might even tease you for it — and that’s a good thing!
You’ve just created a real conversation, one that can grow, laugh, flirt, and flow.
Maybe you even joke, “Fine, you can pick the pineapple off your slice and I'll take it for mine!” That’s charm. That’s connection.
Key Tip from our Top Chatter:
"Being interesting isn’t about agreeing with everything. It’s about showing some personality — even showing how small problems can be solved in a fun, clever way."
The Danger of Being Predictable
Let’s be honest: predictability is boring.
Imagine talking to someone who always says the same thing: "Woke up. Ate food. Played games. Sleep. Thanks."
Every. Single. Day.
Eventually, fans feel like they’re talking to a robot — not a real person.
And in this industry? Basic is boring.
Boring gets left behind.
Women naturally have so much personality. Hormones, moods, funny quirks — use them!
If a fan acts weird, don’t just reply with “Haha cute.”
If they cross the line, call it out — playfully or firmly, depending on the vibe.
Set boundaries, show confidence, and let your real reactions come through. That’s being interesting.
Another Gem from our Top Chatter:
"There’s a reason the book 'Why Men Love Bitches' became so popular — it talks about showing attitude, being curious, being funny, and communicating well. Fans are drawn to women who have depth, not just pretty faces."
In short:
Show your personality.
Don’t be afraid of a little disagreement — it keeps conversations alive.
Communicate with realness, not autopilot.
Be unpredictable (in a good way!).
Set standards and don’t shy away from playful honesty.
Stay curious about the world — it naturally makes you more engaging.
Master these basics, and you’re not just chatting — you’re building real connections.
That’s how you stand out. That’s how you grow sales.
And that’s how you become a truly great chatter.
